On the Spectrum

I am a female with Autism the Aspergers Kind I live in a Group home in Charlotte,  North Carolina I am not feeling good because the Boss for my Group Home manager , the Group home manager, My Case worker and my Parents  have told me that WILL BE TAKEN by the Police and go to JAIL If I am haveing an Upset where I scream, Slam Doors, throw things , Hit Property, Hit People, Damage Property, etc up to where the group home clients at the Group Home are afraid of me and upset at me. I do get overly upset at times about things .I DO NOT WANT TO BE IN JAIL WHEN I GET OVERLY UPSET. What am I going to do. If you know the answers please message me